Seducing women tips - how to turn a woman on

These are critical fliгting adviсe if you are tο get οut of the "Friend" zone and іnto thө "Potөntial Lover" categoгy with anү woman:

1. Smiling. You must smile. You probaЬly tһink yoυ smіle now, bυt yοu don't, really. You should practicө үour smile in the mirror--to bө big enough to bө notіced, үour smile will probаbly һave to be bigger tһan үou arө used to.

2. Getting caυght looking. Most people look awaү when the objeсt οf their desire looks аt thөm. If you ωant to let that рerson know yoυ aгe interested, when ѕhe catches үou looking, smilө, hold eye contact a moment longer, thөn lοok away.

Today I am going off course a bit. I have been receiving emails asking a lot of different questions, but one subject keeps coming up more often than others.

Sex. And how to be good at it.



Most guys automatically think they are great in the sack. That they have the skills to drive women crazy in bed. The bad news - this is rarely the case. The good news - this stuff can be taught!

Sex is important. If you can bring a women to a level of sexual pleasure she has never experienced before, she will never forget you. You will instantly be a legend in her mind, and her attraction towards you will skyrocket.

Today I am going to look at how to turn a woman on. Below I have listed a few things you can do in order to drive your woman wild.

1) Sensual language - There is a big difference between sensual language and sexual language. Girls like to hear ideas, feelings and emotions described in detail in a sensual way. Voice tone, or a "sexy voice" is a big plus.

2) Touching - This is a HUGE part of turning a girl on. Most guys rush past this part without realizing how important it is. Girls like to be touched, caressed, stroked, cuddled etc. Now you don't do this whenever you are with her, but when you are alone with her, make sure to dedicate some time in this area.

3) Smells - Ever notice that women love to smell flowers? Girls LOVE scents. And a great cologne has the ability to excite a girl.



Women also love is to be smelled. Take some time to smell her hair while you stroke it. Smell her neck while you kiss it. TELL her how great she smells. These simple gestures can set her off. Believe me.

4) Tastes - while on the couch or lying in bed, feed a girl things like strawberries, chocolate or champagne.

Notice how the above four things all relate to her senses. By stimulating certain senses, you can put her in "the mood".

Women do not get aroused visually like men do. They may very well be attracted to a man, but her other senses play a bigger role when it comes to being sexually excited.

Little things, like running your fingertips across her thigh or hands, kissing her earlobes etc. are more likely to get her aroused than simply a good looking guy with his shirt off.

You want to build a fire inside of her. Resist your urge to just pounce on her and get naked. I know, I know. It can be hard. But by doing the little things you will reap the rewards.

Kiss her gently. Pull back and look her in the eyes for a second or two; then begin kissing her gently again. Try to stimulate all her senses. Make it a sensual experience.

This buildup will get her so excited that she simply can't resist you any longer. With a little practice, you will see exactly how to stimulate her senses.

I think that is where I will leave it for today. I will talk about building anticipation and also specific sexual techniques in another article. It is SO important to learn the basics of how to turn a woman on before learning what to do in the sack. After all, you have to get there first don't you!?!

For those that are extra eager to learn more about how to turn a woman on make sure to visit my website and sign up for the free course on dating and how to be successful with women. Not only will you learn about being the greatest lover a women has ever had, but I also look at other areas of dating and how to attract the women of your dreams.


Seducing women tips - how to turn a woman on

Dating women and seduction tips - What Women Look For in Men - A Guide to Self-Improvment

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Ah the age old question – “what do women look for in men?”

Well, I’m not here to go over all those things, but I do want to touch on some on the basic things that you have control over. Let’s start with appearance.

Now as I have mentioned in the past – even unattractive guys can score with hot girls. The way you carry yourself and your attitude in general plays a big enough role in the game of attraction that looks are not the only thing that matters.



However girls like guys that take care of themselves. They notice a lot of things that guys do not pay a lot of attention to. They look at what you are wearing, your shoes, your belt, your hairstyle etc. They may not make their judgment based only on that – in fact I know they don’t – but if it still enters their mind does it not make sense to make an effort in those categories?

It amazes me how many guys come to me asking me for advice on approaching girls or on different areas of seduction when they have not even covered some of the most basic areas. I hate to sound harsh, but many of the guys that come to me look sloppy, dirty and completely out of touch with fashion.

You do not need to be decked out in brand new Armani suits or the latest fashion trends. But you do need to have a sense of style. There are plenty of websites that offer fashion advice for men. http://men.style.com/ and www.askmen.com/fashion/fashiontip/index.html are two options that have some useful info.

Know the basics. What is in or out? What colors work together? And yes, some of this stuff costs money. But you don’t have to spend a fortune. Check out ebay for some heavily discounted clothing. There are all the brand names you can buy (many are fake – but look identical) to help your look.

Also look for sales. They aren’t hard to find. Buy a great pair of shoes. Buy a wicked belt. And if you are not able to afford all this stuff, build your wardrobe gradually. In the meantime make sure you look coordinated.

Continual improvement. That is what I am hoping you strive for. And it extends to more areas than just what you wear.

Go to a fancy salon and ask what is in style when it comes to hair. They know what they are doing and can choose something to go with your hair texture and type that will energize your look.

I always advocate going to the gym. I realize not everyone is a fan of this idea. Many people are too busy. Many people don’t have the facilities. Most people are just too lazy.



But exercise makes a HUGE difference. It motivates you like you wouldn’t believe and gives you a brand new confidence in yourself. This can do wonders with the ladies. Not to mention losing a few pounds and developing a fit physique never hurts either.

All of these things are easy to do. I always look at ways of improving little things about my appearance. My bathroom is full of skin and hair products. My closet is full of clothes. Some guys think that makes them less of a man. I see that as just an excuse. If it helps you get more GIRLS, how are you less of a man?

The idea of continual improvement extends to much more than your appearance. I will touch on that in another article. For now I will leave you with a list of small things you can do to make sure you are looking your best. I don’t expect you to do everything on this list right away, but hopefully you see the value in always looking for ways to improve in that category. Here you go:

- Exercise

- Visit a salon for a fashionable haircut

- Dress well – search the net for fashion advice if need be

- Keep your nails well trimmed

- Shave regularly

- Trim nose and ear hair

- Wear cologne

- Have good oral hygiene – Brush, Floss and use a tongue scraper

- Shower before you go out

- Make sure foot odor is not an issue – clean your socks, shoes and feet regularly!

Again, I hate sounding harsh, but I know this stuff will help with the ladies! And that’s why you are here right!?