Are yοu like mοst nice guys іn thіs world? Do you currently get nervouѕ beforө yoυ apprοach or taΙk to women? If so thөn don't feel bad. Tһe great news fοr үou is that wοmen are now willіng to help. In thө past women nөver wantөd men to ĸnow what they truly wanted. Women wanted to remain а mystery. What waѕ eventually fοund οut wаs thаt woмen were missing out οn all the good guys bөcause of that.
I get this question VERY often.
It has been plaguing men since the beginning of time. What do women look for in men?
Well, the truth is I don't have the full answer. But there are a few things I know will help you attract and ultimately seduce women.
Today I am going to look at one key character trait: A man in control.Now, let me say that this tends to be effective with all girls, but especially with girls that are very attractive (babes, hot, smokin'... take your pick!).
I want you to put yourself in the shoes of a beautiful woman. Think about what they are used to.
They get hit on ALL the time. Guys pamper them, throw out millions of compliments and try to meet their every wish. They are used to getting what they want, when they want it.
Realistically that is one of the benefits of being an attractive women. You often get waited on hand and foot. So how do you set yourself apart? Well, act in the opposite way. You want to gain control and show them that you aren't just another chump being hypnotized by their beauty.
Why? Because it is a powerful way of getting them interested. You are doing the complete opposite of what they are used to. They get confused at first, and then they get intrigued.
Women like a challenge. When you act in a way that they aren’t used to – in a way that makes them feel as though they need to live up to your standards – you feed into their desire for a challenge.
So what exactly do you do? Well, act in a way that you are in control. Don’t give in to her demands when she would expect you to do so. If she says “take me out to dinner”, chuckle and tell her she can take YOU out if she feels like going out. If she says “come over I want to see you”, tell her you are busy but will come over when you can.
Simple things like this really play with her head. It also builds her respect for you. You aren’t just like all the other guys. You are independent and confident in your own decisions. Girls love this.
Now, it is important to point out that you DO NOT want to come across as mean. When you make comments like the above, always try to be playful while getting your point across. Be funny, be slightly cocky, but always be respectful.
You are not trying to insult the girl. You are simply making them know that you are your own person and that they are lucky to be a part of your world. You still do nice things for them. Open doors, pay them a compliment from time to time, make sure they are sexually satisfied etc. But you are doing this on your own schedule.
You don’t simply disregard their wants. Pay attention to what they like and when they ask for certain things. For example, I may very well take the girl who wanted to go out for dinner out one night, but not just because she asked. I will surprise her with a special dinner on another date. You are doing things on your own terms.
This can be tricky at first since guys are so used to acting differently. Once you see how effective it is you won’t go back though. It also helps to maintain your pride and independence. If you are with a woman and feel you have to cater to her every need, it isn’t a good situation.
Remember my point of being funny and slightly cocky. I discuss this communication style further in my crash course you can sign up for at my website (no cost) so make sure you pay a visit. It is a critical component of making this tactic work.
So remember, if you want to have success with women (and particularly hot ones!), make sure you challenge them and remain in control of the relationship.
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