Art of seduction - Rules in Dating Girls - Eight Tips to Always Keep in Mind

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I receive a fair amount of emails from guys asking about the “rules” they should follow when dating. With that in mind, I thought I would list what I consider to be 8 important rules in dating girls.

For the most part my advice focuses on overcoming shyness and approaching girls. I also discuss other techniques to improve your success rate with women. I always feel a certain amount of giddiness when I get an email asking for advice about going on a date, as it means the sender “landed” a girl. The tips must be paying off!

It is important to develop skills for dating….after all it is great to be able to get a number and set up a date. However if you flop each time you go out on one you are in trouble. If you keep these 8 “rules” in mind, you are already ahead of the game.

1) Open doors for her – This one is an old rule and still holds true. It is such a simple act that girls greatly appreciate. Now don’t make a spectacle of it. Do it as though it is something you always do and it is part of your nature. It shows you are helpful and caring. Points for you!

2) Approach the first date as though it is her time to impress you – It takes some time to see if you actually “click” with a girl. The first date should be exactly that – your time to see if she is a fit for you.

Approaching the date this way can be very helpful. First, it lowers the pressure you put on yourself. Second, you portray yourself through your body language and actions that you are the one being sought after. Girls always like a certain amount of chase.

3) Act like a friend (even drop a line about “being friends”) – This plays some major tricks on girls. About 15 minutes into the conversation saying something like “So far so good. It’s always a good thing meeting new friends isn’t it?” can have a major impact. It confuses her as she is most likely used to guys acting like a boyfriend right form the start. Believe me, it’s powerful stuff.

Lean back, laugh, have fun and act like her friend (at least at the start). It builds comfort and puts her in a position where she views you as a challenge.



4) Don’t treat the date like an interview – A first date typically involves SO many questions. “Where did you grow up?” “What do you do?” “Tell me about your family?” ….blah blah blah. A lot of the times these are just ways of filling up dead air.

If you have already taken my free week long crash course via email (available at my website), then you know girls aren’t attracted to the same old predictable guy. Ask these types of questions and that is who you are. Instead, bring some spice and excitement to the table. Ask goofy questions. Talk about the latest celebrity scandals, talk about the neighborhood drunk that keeps waking you up……make it funny! A question like “are you as sad as I am that Britney and K-Fed aren’t together anymore?” brings up an opportunity for funny conversation that she won’t be expecting. Believe me, this works!

5) Watch your body language – Always project confidence in your body language. Walk upright, put your shoulders back and hold your head up.

Make eye contact and hold it. If your eyes are shifting a lot it shows nervousness.

Make sure your gestures are slow and controlled. Many people make fast movements when they are nervous.

Also, lean back while sitting and try not to cross your legs or arms.

All of this portrays confidence. Practice this if you need to, it can take some getting used to. But remember body language is a HUGE part of communication. All of this will help.

6) Try to take her somewhere fun or different – Let’s face it. Dinner and a movie is so predictable. I love going out for dinner. I still consider that a great date. But make sure the restaurant is unique or interesting.

Where I live we have a restaurant owned by a gay couple who collect rooster memorabilia. The whole place is covered with roosters and the owners are off the wall. It makes for a unique and fun dining experience.

Maybe there is a cool market you can take her to. Or a festival in town. Think of places where she most likely has never gone to with a guy.

And it also helps to go to more than one place. Venue changes help to make her feel comfortable with you as it gives the impression you have experienced more together. It also makes it feel like she has gone on an adventurous date.

7) Do not think that spending money on her will impress her. If you just start spending truckloads of cash on her on dinners, shows and flowers it gives off a real signal that you are chasing her.

It’s ok to buy her a meal if you offered to do so, but don’t offer to pay for absolutely everything. Remember, she likes to be challenged and you want her guessing whether or not you are interested in her.

8) Have fun – Ok, this one seems obvious. But it really is important. I always approach a date as though I am going to enjoy myself. I might not “dig” the girl, but I am still going to go out and have a good time.

I love women for obvious reasons. I also genuinely like their company, even if I am not attracted to them as more than “just friends”. Approach all your dates as though you are going to have fun regardless of whether the two of you “click” and you will have an edge.

There you have it. By keeping these rules in dating girls in mind not only do you have a much better chance of making your date heavily attracted to you, but you will also enjoy yourself more. It’s a win-win!

Art of seduction - Rules in Dating Girls - Eight Tips to Always Keep in Mind

Making the first move - How to Make a Move - Keys to succesful Dating

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Let's take a look at some situations with girls that most guys get nervous about when dealing with women.

1) Approaching the girl. This initial meeting or introduction is never even made for many guys. They just watch her across the room wishing they had the guts to talk to her.

2) Asking for her number. This is terrifying for many guys. They might have a great conversation with her, but they aren't able to take it to the next step.

3) The first kiss. This takes a lot of courage for most men. Most guys let plenty of opportunities pass them by before they finally make this "move".

I am going to stop there for now. There are many other situations, but the above three illustrate my point. They all involve a situation where the guy faces the possibility of rejection.

What if the girl doesn't talk to me or makes me feel like an idiot? What if she gives me a fake phone number or laughs at me?

Guys are afraid of rejection. It can be a huge blow to the ego. Who likes that?

But you MUST get over it. Your fear of rejection is holding you back from enjoying the success with girls you deserve. Not only that, but since girls are used to guys acting nervous in these situations, you have the opportunity to shine by not being intimidated and facing the challenge.

Today I am going to look at a few ways to decrease your chance of rejection – and ultimately – improve your success with women.

What are some areas that I find guys ask me “How to make a move?” Well, there are many. But let’s focus on two for now. 1) Getting a girls phone number. 2) Asking for a date.

Ok, I’m excited. I love the nervous energy that comes along with each of these situations. I get a huge rush from it. It’s easy to turn this nervous energy and turn it into a positive thing.

Ok, enough about me, let’s look closer at each scenario.

1) Getting a girl’s phone number – Here I am assuming you have already approached a girl and started a conversation (To learn about how to successfully do this make sure to sign up for my free course at my website). Remember from my previous articles – you have started a light-hearted, funny conversation where you have been able to make the girl laugh while coming across as though you were just starting a regular conversation – NOT hitting on her.

I like to challenge myself to get a phone number within five minutes. You want to strike while the irons hot. If you wait too long, you risk the chance of running out of things to say or having awkward silences.

I also always encourage being the one who ends the conversation. By being the one who has to go because you are “meeting friends, need to get a drink, have to return a call" etc. it gives you social proof and heightens the girl's curiousity.

The key here is to make it comes across as natural and laid back as possible when you ask for her number. Have a routine and stick to it. Do not let it comes across as rehearsed though.

I like to ask them if they have an email. When they say yes, I simply say “ok, you’re an interesting character. I have to get going but write it down for me so I have it”. Notice I am not “asking” for it. I am telling them to give it to me.

While they are writing the email down, I then say “and jot down your phone number too.” Do it naturally and it comes across as extremely smooth. This method has a high success rate since it doesn’t come across as creepy whatsoever.

2) Asking for a date - There are a couple of different ways of doing this. Remember, as I always stress, be confident and do not appear nervous. You want this to seem natural and unrehearsed.

For now, I am going to suggest you use a line involving the term “friendship”. I talk about the psychology behind this in one of the first lessons of my free course.

Use a line like “Well let’s get together for a friendly drink. You sound like someone who would be a great friend.” Of course, you can change the word “drink” to something else. Any type of informal outing is fine.

The key here is that you are coming across as though you are interested in being friends with her. Girls are shocked by this! And shock leads to intrigue.

You see, girls don’t ever get asked out like this. Who could have thought! A guy who wants to be friends!?!?

This makes her very curious and makes her feel as though you are a challenge. If you do this in person, you can actually see her thinking to herself “Isn’t he interested in me? This is different….”

A lot of guys feel weird or awkward using this tactic at first. But it is SO effective. I guarantee you that it will not only help you land a date, but also pay dividends on the date itself.

So there you go – How to make a move in those crucial moments. When you are prepared and have a proven game plan, you have no reason to fear rejection. Embrace the challenge and I promise you that you will succeed. In the next article I will look at two more “crucial moments”. The first date (when you are out on the date) and the first kiss. Until then, happy hunting!

Making the first move - How to Make a Move - Keys to succesful Dating

Women Seduction during dates - Amazing Tips When Dating Hot Women - Learn the Secrets From Guys Who Date Hot Women

Is it really so difficult to hook up with gorgeous women? Some men think so. Somehow, hot girls don't easily fall for the 'usual' tricks because they know they can have men eating out of their hands anywhere. Because of this knowledge, gorgeous women are in a position to DECIDE which guy to go out with. Choice puts women like this in the perfect position to love you completely or to reject you mercilessly.

Because you want a girl to see you as the the man she wants to be with, you will need to master some special tricks that work particularly well on gorgeous girls.

Let's face the fact once and for all: Hot women are the hardest to ask out on a date. Well, who can blame them? They're smoking and they deserve the best of the best. You have to understand that these girls get date offers left and right and you have to stand out to get noticed. The good part is, you don't have to be good-looking or drop dead gorgeous to date hot women. You don't believe me? Here are some amazing tips on how to date them and keep them coming to you in no time.

* Never act desperate. There's just something so unpleasant about over eager guys who seem too excited and jumpy when around girls. The last thing a hot woman wants is someone drooling on her shoes so you might want to keep you wits intact and be in control of your emotions. Yeah, she's hot, but you don't have to let her know you desire her every being. You'd probably end up with a slap or two. And it's just 8:30.

* Don't shower her with compliments. Sure. Women love compliments. But hot girls are more immune to them than the rest. You don't want to further the pain in her eardrums so show them your killer sense of humor for a change. Hot women are not really that hard to please. As long as you can make them laugh, you have scored big in her scoreboard.

* Make her work her way to your approval. Who says you have to give in to their every whim? You know you're a great guy and you have confidence, so let her know your worth and make her do the some work as well. Hot women love a challenge and by staying mysterious and intriguing, you're going to be twirling her around your fingers in no time.

Women Seduction during dates - Amazing Tips When Dating Hot Women - Learn the Secrets From Guys Who Date Hot Women

Seduction dating tips - Ultimate Dating Tips Revealed - These Tactics Work So Well That Women Hate Me For Revealing Them

A woman can't deal with the guilt of liking a guy just because she pities him. She will run away, make up excuses and lie to you about her feelings. If you've been chased away in the past by a girl because you're too clingy, this proves my point.

A woman wants someone who doesn't exactly depend on her for his happiness. This way she can keep her emotional independence, and she has a choice whether to like you or not.

If you keep being needy, and you go around following her and getting jealous of all the men that hang around her, she will think you don't have a life outside your relationship. This is a major turn off, dude, so quit being needy.

So you want to know how to pick up women, and how to attract women into your life. Being a womanizer has nothing to do with your looks really, but rather how well you can play with a woman's psychological state and emotions. It sounds like a sick game, but players do it every night. Its a dirty secret that women don't want out; but in fact you can get a chick just by knowing exactly what to do. Here is how you can get a hot date fast...

Shock her- The shock factor does not mean telling her that your package is huge, but rather can simply be not approaching her like most men. Walk right in and say something completely crazy; that she won't understand. She will spend some time with a confused look trying to figure you out, and will have less time to think about rejecting you. Keeping her surprised and shocked is a huge tactic to keeping her interested in you; because she will feel like no other man has done that- which is a challenge then for her to get a guy who is different.

It's not looks or money; but rather just a few skills you need to be able to get chicks interested in you. You must be able to listen well; but at the same time you must be able to tell good stories. These stories cannot just be about your life in the platonic matter like "me, name, age, work.." that is boring.... You must be able to generate interesting and delicious stories. Even if you have to lie or change a few things at first, do it! Women cannot resist a man who is entertaining with stories.

Be able to present things that she will actually find interesting. Your job is boring if you are the average guy; and then all she thinks about is your wallet. So how do you do this? It has been suggested by gurus before that you can simply do something like just get a photo of yourself somewhere in a public place- whether it was at a party, in the newspaper..whatever the case even if you have to photo shop it and present that instead. Present crazy stories and things that sound very fun, very adventurous, and like you have been active in life.

Seduction dating tips - Ultimate Dating Tips Revealed - These Tactics Work So Well That Women Hate Me For Revealing Them

Seducing women tips - How to Attract and Date Women With Supermodel Looks

Guys, let's admit it - we all have had trouble making women feel interested in what we have to say. You may have learned from other men that women respond only to certain prompts, but they won't tell you the ones that work.

Don't feel disheartened. Today you're going to learn how to capture women's attention and keep them interested. Truly, making a woman feel compelled to learn more about you is the only way you can make her stay with you, start a relationship with you, and keep you close to her for the long term.

Listen - if you want to date women with perfect ten bodies and cute faces then you will need to know "industrial strength" dating and seduction techniques.



You see, it is a different kettle of fish altogether to attract gorgeous women - those sexy goddesses who gets attention (from both men and women) everywhere they go. However, they are not as unattainable as you would believe. Read on to discover the surefire ways to date women with supermodel good looks, and achieve killer results fast...

How To Attract And Date Women With Supermodel Looks

If you want to date gorgeous women, you must first need to know this fundamental fact. It can be EASIER to attract beautiful women - because most men are afraid and get intimidated by them. This means that in reality your 'competition' might be minimal. Also, many gorgeous women are lonely just because men just do not approach them that often! With the two tips I am going to give you next you will be far ahead of the pack.

Tip #1: Congruence. In order to make a gorgeous woman fall for you, you will need to display congruence. This means that you have got to be true to yourself and never attempt to pretend to be someone you are not. If you are insincere and try to be a fake, then women will reject you. They can sniff a fake from a mile away - so don't do this.

Tip #2: Hypnosis. I do NOT mean that you use covert hypnosis techniques to make women fall for you. There are some safe and ethical techniques which you can use to make gorgeous women immediately attracted to you. One of these techniques, called fractionation, is known to be able to make women fall in love in as little as 15 minutes.

But before you use this technique, you must heed this warning... Fractionation is considered as a 'dark art' tactic which is the basis of hypnosis-based seduction, and while controversial, it is known to be one of the most effective tactics ever invented by underground seductionists.

Seducing women tips - How to Attract and Date Women With Supermodel Looks

Seducing Women - How To Approach And Attract Women

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You have probably heard a thousand pick-up lines. In fact, you have probably even tried a few. And let me guess, most did not work did they?

That's to be expected. The female sex is an interesting bunch and men have been trying to find the best way to approach and attract women for thousands of years. Guys will use all sorts of tactics to try to grab their attention. Some will buy them a drink, some will try to show off their muscles while others will try a variety of corny pick-up lines.

In reality, all these tactics can be counterproductive. Girls, especially attractive ones, get offered drinks and hear standard pick-up lines every night they go out. They are used to this attention and see guys flaunting themselves in front of them all the time. It's standard issue for them, and if you use the same methods you then become just another desperate guy trying to get in their pants. DO NOT fall into this trap.



The key to approaching women is to make it appear that you are engaging in conversation simply out of convenience. You do not want them to think you are hitting on them, but rather that you are simply talking to them because they happen to be there. It can be tricky, but there a few ways you can achieve this.

If you see a girl you are interested in or attracted to, do not just go up and start talking. You have to be in their general proximity for a reason. If they are at the bar, maybe you are there just to get a drink. Or a friend of yours is standing around her and you went over to talk to him. I like to position myself close to my "target" and establish that there is a reason I am there before I say a word to her.



At first, when you assume your position close to her, go against any urge to gawk, stare or pay attention to her. Make it clear you are not there for her. When you do actually speak to her, she will be convinced she was just lucky enough to be standing near you at that time.

So what do you say? My favourite "opener" is a question that asks for an opinion. It makes it seems like you are just asking for her opinion on an issue that is on your mind rather than talking to her because you want to impress her.

One I love using is "Hey, let me ask you something. I just talked to my friend who broke up with this girl he has been seeing for a couple of months. Well, he broke up with her by text message. Do you think it's ok to breakup with someone by text message?"

When you are delivering this line make sure you are smiling, standing tall and deliver it with confidence. It's important not to show your nerves in your body language. And make it funny! This topic opens up a whole bunch of doors and usually the girl will think it is quirky and funny. Try to make her laugh and always have a few follow up lines waiting that are funny. For example, if she automatically says no and claims your friend is a jerk, you can say something like "Yeah, I think he is just bitter since his last girlfriend broke up with him on MSN messenger."" You can then launch into a story about this breakup.....there is lots of opportunity to make it funny.

The initial approach is all about being casual and having the girl not interpret your actions as "picking her up". The opinion opener does exactly this as long as you make it appear that you are honestly just picking their head. There are tons of options. Some others include "Who do you think lie more often? Girls or guys?" or "My 16 year old sister wants to get a tattoo of her boyfriends name but I really don't think it's great idea. What do you think?"

These lines can open up some awesome conversations. If you have a casual and unique approach followed by funny and interesting conversation, you are on your way to attracting that girl you never dreamed would pay attention to you! You see, learning how to approach and attract women can be fun and easy! Next time you are out on the town, try out some of these techniques.



This lesson is simply a small part of the art of seduction. The quality of the available information on social dynamics, sexual skills and how to succeed with women has vastly improved and offers any guy an opportunity to be successful with the woman of their dreams. It's a fascinating art and I hope you choose to continue your studies!

Seducing Women - How To Approach And Attract Women